I started refusing to suffer through a library trip out of concern for my sanity. I decided some experiences are not as valuable as a mother’s mental stability. Constantly shushing three young boys, six small hands pulling things off shelves, and the disapproving glances of librarians challenged my patience. (I know not all librarians are stern and stuffy, but we seem to find the few that are.) The result was me saying “no more library!”
A couple years passed since I boycotted the library trips. (Don’t worry. We’ve still been reading. My wonderful husband picks up the books from the library for us.) Then, I offered my boys a deal. If they promised to whisper and skip the behavior that previously drove me to distraction, I would take them to the library.
We went. We read. We brought home a stack of books. We had fun!
The point of this post? Well, it’s meant as a bit of encouragement to moms. First, don’t be afraid to skip out on the places or things that encourage your little people to run like pack animals. I’m not saying withdraw from society. Just recognize the places or activities that are difficult for your child to sit though and avoid them. Second, keep in mind that this is only a passing phase. Before you know it, you’ll be taking your slightly older kiddos to the very places you’ve had to avoid.
The best part is…you’ll be sane enough to enjoy it.
Our library happens to be near a building with a glass elevator.
The reward for nice library behavior:
a ride in the elevator.
We skipped the library for a season, too. I just couldn't handle it.
ReplyDeleteI also don't take my kids to the post office and I really try not to take them to the grocery store. That's a bit difficult when Michael is TDY or deployed, though.